New Delhi: Contrary to what many industry professionals, courses, programs, workshops and training sessions believe, I believe that everyone should be at the level they need to live their life, purpose and journey. I am sure that you are born with the confidence of .
Let me ask you – have you ever really noticed a child? When a baby is born he is free and confident. The baby is confident and when it cries for milk it appears and when it poops it looks like someone cleans it up. Have you ever noticed how confident your toddler is about what she wants and how she communicates clearly without prejudice or hesitation?From almost age 6 to her 10 age, with sufficient confidence and communicative effectiveness.
After that age, we start collecting our life baggage – every time someone says, “Really?”, “Try not to fail”, “You shouldn’t fail!” is up to you!”. We feel the fear of failure and slowly begin to resist taking on big challenges so as not to face that fear. (for years), our minds always remember when we failed at something and slowly self-doubt starts adding layers again and again. , the fully self-expressing child slowly begins to doubt and infer himself.
We are filled with experiences of failure, rejection, and belief in our own incompetence. And because markets and different industries need trust, we are constantly trying to collect news and education, showing off a false sense of confidence and projecting it onto the world. .
But on the inside, there is a great conflict between what we really feel and what we pretend to be accepted, recognized, and valued. Like termites, it eats away at our insides and keeps increasing the experience of something missing.
It has been proven time and time again that possibility is never a problem for humans.We can achieve what we believe. We are not satisfied with our ability to be bigger, stronger, more powerful, or beautiful. Become. What we resist persists. We resist failure, uncertainty and lack of confidence.
As time goes on, the amount of pressure and fear we carry increases to a tremendous amount. It slowly begins to affect your self-esteem. It’s like what you’re trying to prove has been accepted. won! However, that confidence is very short-lived and you have to put a lot of pressure on yourself to perform well every time.
To access innate and innate confidence, work on removing years of conditioning rather than adding new things, acquiring new knowledge or training, or attending workshops. We need to work on getting rid of the old limiting beliefs that don’t serve us—the beliefs that limit us and keep us from living our true potential. Years of self-doubt, We need to break through judgment, fear of failure, and reconnect with the confidence that already exists within us all.
(Neeraj Malik is an Emotional Wellness Coach and Mind Healer)